Free AM I CRAZY OR IS HE A JERK Relationship Quiz

"Am I Crazy or Is He a Jerk" Relationship Assessment

I am so glad you are here, wanting to get some answers about your relationship.

INSTRUCTIONS: The following questions will help you determine “Am I Crazy or Is He a Jerk” in your current or past relationship.

When considering these questions, answer based on what things are like most of the time.

Answer these questions honestly, without worrying if it is the “right” answer. This assessment is to help you determine if you are crazy or if he is a jerk in your current or past relationship.

At the end of the assessment, you will add up your yes and no answers, then go to the assessment results to discover what is going on and what to do next if he is a jerk.

Partner = spouse, significant other, partner, boyfriend, person living with, anyone you are in an intimate/committed relationship with.

Am I Crazy Section 1: Do You Have Equal Say in Financial Decisions and Budgets?

Do you have a job, business or are a stay at home mom, and you have no say over how the money is spent? Are you a stay-at-home mom and you have no say so over how the money is spent? Are you a stay at home mom and you are expected/forced to earn money for food or household items? Do you have to give all your money to your partner who decides how it is spent, with no input from you? Does your partner earn more than you and expects you to pay half or more of the bills? Does your partner give you an “allowance” to cover household or other expenses that is not enough and refuses to give you more even though the amount is not realistic for the size of family and expenses you have now? Does your partner keep his extra money to spend as he sees fit (possibly without telling you) and controls your extra money or makes sure you have nothing left over? Do you work / earn money but your partner consistently doesn’t, and expects you to be paying all the bills while he does nothing / parties / goes to bars / plays video games / gambles / etc.?

Am I Crazy Section 2: Do You Have the Freedom to Make Decisions About How You Dress and What You Do?

Are you met with criticism or accusations about how you dress, do your make up or hair? Are you accused of dressing sexy to flirt with other men when you are dressing sexy for your partner? Are you accused of flirting with other men at parties or get togethers or accused of cheating? Do you feel forced by your partner to work instead of stay home with your children (if that is an option)? Does your partner discourage/prevent you from having the career/business you desire? Does your partner discourage/prevent you from pursuing interests outside of your relationship and family? Does your partner discourage/prevent you from finishing school or pursuing self-growth? Does your partner bully you about spending time/how much time you spend with your children, friends, family or hobbies?

Am I Crazy Section 3: When You Have a Problem with Your Partner, Are You Able to Solve It with a Calm, Focused Discussion and a Win-Win Solution?

When there is a problem that needs to be discussed, does your partner erupt into anger and defensiveness, cutting you off or refusing to hear your side? Do you keep having the same argument over and over and it never gets resolved? Does your partner make you take care of the kids, do most or all of the housework and cooking, pay the bills, work, etc., and does nothing to help, even after repeated requests for his help and participation? Does your partner make you feel wrong when you bring up something that bothers you? Does your partner drink or do drugs excessively even though you have asked him to stop? Does your partner call you hurtful names when he is upset, drunk or on drugs? Does your partner bring up your past "mistakes" during arguments? Does your partner blame you for his behavior? Does your partner rage at you? (i.e. yell at you non-stop for an hour or more)

Am I Crazy Section 4: Are Your Sexual Needs Respected and Important to Your Spouse?

Are you forced, threatened or coerced to participate in sex or sexual acts that you don’t want to? Does your partner guilt trip you into having sex or doing sexual acts that you are uncomfortable with? Does your partner cheat on you either physically or emotionally (sign up for dating sites, visit porn sites, talk to other woman on social media, go to strip clubs, etc.) and you have told him you are not ok with it?

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