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0 YES and 40 NO answers = Empowering.  You are not crazy and he is not a jerk.  You are empowered in your relationship!  You likely feel heard, respected, and free to be yourself and make your own decisions. You’re in a great position to create deeper intimacy, and connection with your partner.  You came here for a reason and I’d love to welcome you to schedule a FREE “Heal Your Heart” Breakthrough Session to iron out any kinks to make your relationship even better. 

1-5 YES answers = Somewhat Disempowering.  You are not crazy and he may be a jerk.  Your YES answers may be red flags that some behaviors by your spouse or partner are disempowering and may progress to abuse.  Your relationship is good most of the time but may need improvement.  When it’s not “good,” you may feel like you are walking on eggshells and may hesitate to express what you truly think and how you really feel.  If this describes you, I encourage you to schedule a FREE “Heal Your Heart” Breakthrough Session while it is still possible to turn your relationship around and fell cherished and loved.

6-15 YES answers = At Risk.  You are not crazy and he is a jerk.  Your YES answers are red flags that many behaviors by your spouse or partner are disempowering and are likely abusive at times.  There may be a lot of blaming and criticizing going on and you feel like you are walking on eggshells often.  Your self-confidence and self-esteem may have been lowered to the point that your needs and wants are no longer important.  You have given up your power, your dreams, and your desires and instead are focusing on keeping your partner happy while ignoring your needs.  If this sounds like you, your relationship is likely at risk. You may need to discover how to stand up for your needs and reclaim your power in your relationship so you feel loved, seen and heard again.  If this describes you, I would love to talk about options for saving your relationship in a FREE “Heal Your Heart” Breakthrough Session.

 16-25 YES answers = Potentially Abusive.  You are not crazy and he is a real jerk.  Your relationships is very disempowering, and in all likelihood, abusive.  Your YES answers are red flags that most of the behaviors by your spouse or partner are disempowering and are abusive often.  There is most likely a lot of blaming, criticizing, bullying and badgering going on with angry explosions or silent treatments.  You may have or have not experienced some physical abuse.  You most likely do not feel in charge of your life and probably have given your power over to your partner, most likely out of fear of his anger and the consequences of “upsetting” him.  If this describes you, I can help you find your voice and get clarity around if your relationship is salvageable or if it is time to lovingly let it go in a FREE “Heal Your Heart” Breakthrough Session.

 26-40 YES answers = Danger Zone.  You are not crazy and he is a major jerk.  Your relationship is not empowering at all and is abusive, even if you have never been hit, shoved, or physically harmed.  Your YES answers are red flags that the majority of behaviors by your spouse or partner are disempowering and abusive.  There is a lot of blaming, criticizing, bullying, badgering, raging, crazy-making going with with angry explosions or the silent treatment.  Your relationship undermines your freedom to be yourself and to feel loved.  You feel alone, isolated, unheard and unseen and like everything is your fault.  If this sounds like you, you may need to decide if you are going to stay or go and I can help you with that overwhelming decision.  Schedule a “Heal Your Heart” Breakthrough Session to get clarity.